For me there is so much power in love and yet there is so much we relate to, in PAIN. It is not that we seek it avidly. And most times than not we even forget how and what caused it. Even the memories have faded. Like water colors on a lonely canvas. However the tears and the invisible knife that sliced our heart, will remain. Stubbornly reminding us of it’s presence.
So many of us set our life’s ways to avoid such pain. Changing the way we have done things in the past. It is a form of internal protection. But I often question as to it’s worth. Nothing can and will soften that blow. But only time will. and Time can.
The best way is to look at you, at your intent when you were in that situation. Were you being honest. Were you forgiving? Were you Loving? – Then, Even though your heart may have been broken you still have won that moment.
For myself I chose not to let my past define my future. I like to “Love” without fear. and I do so. To trust and be loving is so important to me. It is what drives my engine forward. Without that. Nothing really works. It’s like having chocolate cake with a bad cold. You get all the calories but where is the fun :( ????
I chose to trust my love, unless I have reason not to. and that reason has to be given to me. This, I find is a better way to be. yes. We will all feel that pain and the fear of being hurt again. But i also realize that if we truly truly loved then the possibility of pain is endless. But it is better for me to love. It brings so much joy into my life.
I like being powerful in that truth. Knowing that even if there was some pain involved in my loving another it will only make me realize how much love I do have for that person. For without that love , my feelings would be ” indifferent” .
That my friends is such a “Bla” place to be. I may as well go live in mars.
So be power filled in your LOVE. Give it your all. and trust that God and his angels will reside within those borders of joy. I know they do. and they will .
Resonate with your pain. But “LIVE THROUGH YOUR LOVE”
Namaste.